When your grade says a F instead of the expecting A.
When your house is no longer a home.
When the Jerry Springer shows pale in comparison to your neighbourhood.
When you jobless so long you wonder what is the point of adulthood.
When you question the point of your university education.
When the bank, the bank wants its money.
When your “friends” disappear.
When your wife cheats on you with your best friend and the child is his(the best friend).
When your last pair of shoes is on the verge of elimination.
When the mortgage on the house is in 6 months arrears and your husband is dying of cancer.
When you are pregnant and your boyfriends tells you to abort because he does not care for a child.
When your pastor is having an affair with your niece and you do not know whether you should let his wife know.
When your daughter is in turmoil from the abuse of someone she trusted.
When your ex-boyfriend poses nude photos of you on social networks.
When you feel like that Maths class torments you but you need to keep at it or you will not graduate.
When you contemplate committing suicide because you feel alone.
When the doctor cannot diagnose your pain.
When you feel your faith in God is tiring and your church feels like a battlefield.
When that women next door is threatening to expose your illegal drug past to your boss.