It is interesting to note that many times before a woman receives ‘evidence’ that her mate is cheating, she pokes around looking for clues. In that case, if you think your man is creeping around then either you are paranoid or simply put he is cheating. I do not know if it has to do with the theory of Women Intuition, craziness or CIA skills [or a mixture of all three] but most times, when a woman claims her man’s a cheat, turns out she is right. When a relationship ends the woman racks her brain, to figure the reason her boyfriend cheated. After listening to my male and female friends, family and myself for years about men and cheating, I share with you my top 5 simple general reasons for a man’s infidelity.
5. He was never serious about you. He was on the prowl for fresh meat and you were looking for a connection. Immediately he used his smooth words and fake profile and whilst you are building a connection, Mr. Mac Daddy grinned his teeth all week waiting to fill his friends in on your naïvety, on the weekend. He did not have hopes to keep you longer than his usual appetite of ‘I am filled with the new girl.’ He is the type who wan to join in everything you do and he subtly uses various scenarios in his past relationship to show how you are the best thing that ever happened to him. Take note, when you have to ask details/introductions about his family and friends yet he endeavours to know you better than your mother, in a short space of time.
4. He has a wife/girlfriend. Mr. Mac Daddy has a main squeeze somewhere out there that he is basically cheating on with you. Suddenly you become the other woman with no prior knowledge of ‘her.’ This one is simple, you are play toys for him. After spending time with him you will pick up the patterns of phone calls and online chats, try contacting him outside your usual smooch times discovery channel.P.S You should watch the Other Woman[Romantic Comedy] with Cameron Diaz.
3. You are unfaithful. He may not discover your cheating ways early but he picks up on your endless girls night out. He may forgive you or cheat on you for revenge. No sane man would take lightly, that another man is boning his wife/ girlfriend. So before you go out discovering yourself in that way, consider how much you care about your man doing you the same.
2. Let’s talk about sex baby . He is not satisfied, no matter how many frisky moves you learn. Men do not play with sex, if your food is not filling him adequately, soon another woman’s gymnastics skills will pull him away from your sheets to hers, again and again. If he is a very sexual person and you are withholding sex from him for any particular reason, then chances are some other woman is fulfilling his libido. He may love you but when that mating scent arouses , you are out of mind until he hits calm again.
1. He wants to end the relationship,. Hmmm, remember when Usher said “When your feeling ain’t the same and your body don’t want to but you know gotta let it go cause the party ain’t jumpin’ like it used to…?” Well he does not feel the same about the relationship, he craves the insane rush he once felt at the beginning of the union. He met another girl, who set his soul on fire and puff, he willingly lets her suck him in. Maybe your personality changed or he is a different person or the physical thing which made his heart leap disappeared he is not attracted to you anymore. Sometimes he is too much of a coward to call it quits either because he fears you are psycho and may kill him or he just does not want to see that heartbroken look on your face. Chances are he is hoping that you find out his extra curricular activities, so you could dump him instead of he calling it quits.